Given the catastrophic events, I must have the picture frame
that holds a photo of me with my dad at my sister’s wedding. The frame itself
represents my family culture because it has a Celtic design which is indicative
of Irish culture. This frame is dear to me because my father passed away a few
years ago and behind the photo is the obituary from the newspaper. It is also from
a special day that had all of my family together and represents our close ties
with each other.
I also must take my dog, Niah with me. Even though it may
seem silly or odd to some, my dog is like my child and also truly is my best
friend. She is the item that represents my family culture in the ways that she will
help me feel safe and comfortable in the drastic change of culture and
environment. I also include her because I understand that not everyone
recognizes a dog as family like I do and I must ensure that she is included.
The third item that I would need to bring with me is my box
of Christmas ornaments. The box is full of my family traditions and culture.
Each year my mother bought me a new ornament which has a special meaning based
on what was going on in my life for the year. This means that each ornament has
a unique meaning behind it while also representing the traditions that are
carried from one year to the next.
If I were told I must choose between the items and pick only
one to keep I truly don’t think it would be difficult for me. It has to be my
dog. The other items I listed have a lot of meaning and memories but my dog is
another life that I must protect. Choosing between what items to bring is
rather difficult to begin with. Most of my family culture is represented by the
foods we eat. When these foods are being prepared and eaten, this is the time
that my family gets together to help each other and celebrate each other. This
exercise has taught me that I do not have many tangible items that are truly
dear to me and represent my family culture. As long as I have my family,
including my dog, I know I will be okay.
Great post Terri,
ReplyDeleteA photo is one of the items I would choose as well. My photo shows how diverse each of my family members are but yet cohesive. I love this photo it just reminds me of family and tells a story.
Hi Terri! I too have a dog, whose name is Song, but didn't even think about including her. She, too is like family and I feel safe and loved when she is around. I also like that you have memories of your family with you, especially your dad. Father-daughter relationships are priceless and that simple reminder can brighten a girl's day.
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